My five year old is sitting by me making mouth noises when I lose it. “squish, bleerp, swishhhh, squish.” “OK STOP! ENOUGH with the mouth noises!! GET OUT of here!!! GO!!!” I shriek in my loudest most threatening voice (and ask anyone who knows me, I have a very loud voice.) The [...]Continue Reading
Parenting and Anger Series
What started as one post about parenting an angry child has unfolded into a series about parenting and anger. I could split these into two groups - about anger in our children and anger in ourselves, but I feel like they go so closely hand in hand that they really are part of the same [...]Continue Reading
Nuts and Bolts of Dealing with Parenting Rage
Relationship Survival Mode and Taking Care of Yourself In Dealing with Parenting Rage Part 1 I published a reply to a reader who had asked about staying calm with intense parenting situations. If I could include a few more things in my response, here's what I would say- When everything feels [...]Continue Reading
Dealing with Parenting Rage – Part 1
A letter from a reader after I published Parenting an Angry Child: My son can be angry at times, but I often blame myself. I am a single mom of a 3 and 5 year old and needless to say, I lose my temper :( in ways that are totally unacceptable to me when I am under control! Screaming, snatching him [...]Continue Reading